My card!!! It's actually Jerlyn but.... My full name is too long.... -.-
Thursday, 28 November 2013
Wednesday, 27 November 2013
How to soothe your anger or something that bothers you
Other people may have other way but this is my way. Some people eat food that they like when they are angry but a lot of it may cause health problem. Some people cut themselves which somehow I just CANNOT understand and can cause death. All those ways can let you be at risk so... maybe you can try to consider these ideas...
1. Do not talk when you are sad or angry.
I know some people may think that you are "emo-ing" but just don't care. Let yourself calm down because I realised that when people are sad or angry talk, their eyes will either be red or filled with tears and other people may start to comment about you being a cry baby which I think most of you do not like.
2. Take a warm shower/bath and sing
For me, I take shower. no bathtub at home. By the way, showering is good to your heart. I think showering is a better option because those water dropping and tapping on you is like trying to console you, telling you to chill and put down your feelings and sing. I think singing really helps too. Just let down your self-conciousness and sing. No matter how ugly your voice is, just sing. It's normal if you sing and cry because you are letting out your feelings. Just imagine the shower room is your stage.
3. Smile
Smiling really helps. If I'm not wrong, smiling is proven to control temper or sadness. Some people may ask you what happen or why you have red eyes. Just answer them "Nothing." and continue to smile. Ignore all questions until you are feeling better
4. Write how you feel on your diary or paper. Just write (extra)
For me, I like to write how I feel. Because there's nobody you can trust or you can tell. Some people just make you pissed off even more or even tell someone. If you just cannot even tell your bestfriend, just treat the paper as your friend. The paper is innocent. Nobody knows except you two. I think typing is just pressing the keys but writing, you make an effort. Every word is your feeling
Friday, 22 November 2013
Good news!
YAY!!!! Mummy had booked tickets for us (family) to go on cruise!!!! LOVE cruise. The last time we went was 8 Dec 2012 for a week on Costa Victoria but this time, we'll be going only for 3 days on Royal Carribean! AHHHHHHH!!!!!:D ROYAL CARRIBEAN LEH!!!
The first cruise I went was Costa Victoria. It's quite fun. Filled with activities. I actually didn't thought of joining any activities but a guy who is the host of the activity pulled me there and danced with the crowd. From then, I got confidence and participate in quite a lot of activities. I love cruise is because rooms and food are all accomadated. So no worries for anything like getting lost. Haha
SOOOOO LOOKING FORWARD TO ANOTHER CRUISE HOLIDAY!!!! Royal Carribean!!! I'm coming!!! 29 November to 2 December
Friday, 8 November 2013
My 1st Job
Since there's nothing to do during holiday, my friend asked me to work with her at our school bookshop. It's fun and worth it! Our job is to sell books that students need to use next year. OMG. It was my first time actually working whereas my friend had experienced working as a "bookshop auntie" before... It requires customer service so I didn't really have any confidence in that job at first. But things came out a bit easier than I expected... It's worth it because you just take the books that the customer wants and just calculate the amount of books. Just like that you earn $2 an hour. To me it's worth it lah... Such an easy job what you expect...
I think the difficulty of this job is to talk and check with the customer... Sometimes, I don't know why, when I try to talk to the customer, some of the vocab in my mind are lost... I know what to say but that word just didn't appear in my mind... Ya... And you need to talk to the customer in a polite way, use the correct words, make sure what he/she wants...
Thursday, 7 November 2013
Seniors VS Juniors
Just can't understand some adults. Why can't they just accept the fact that they are wrong and listen to their junior's views instead of scolding the juniors for talking back? I know some of you adults just cannot take it when a junior prove you wrong. But hello, nobody's perfect. You need to listen to other people's views, share your thoughts with them or prove the juniors that they are wrong by talking nicely. Why can't you just do that instead of scolding us like we are always wrong? I really appreciate some adults who talk to their juniors nicely, share their thoughts together and improve their life, ,accept their own mistake and learn. It's really nice. :) but some adults just cannot accept the fact that they are wrong and just use the 2 words 'Talk Back'. The word talk back means to to share political views. Really hate them misusing the word. It's not just because you are seniors, you ought to get respect or what. Did you really listen or hear our views? Listen and hear are two different words. Do you actually try to understand us? Now this becomes a family problem. News saying that their child is spending more time with their friends and on their phone, parents are not close with their child or government organising more family bonding days or activities blah blah... But hey. Family bonding is not just about fun. It's also about the understanding each other. Did you guys ever try to understand? Sometimes kids spend more time with their friends. Did you actually understand why?
We are taught to settle things nicely when we are about kindergarten age... When kids fight with each other, teachers or parents will often tell their child to apologise to "opponent", Shake hands with each other and be friends again. Hey! Come on! Some matters are minor. You don't need to act so "impulsive" or treat it as if it's a major thing.
Dear seniors... Though you're senior, you still have to settle things logically and because you are seniors, you can't simply say that a person is talking back just because you don't accept their views. You need to listen and learn. I know seniors are "stronger" than juniors but if you can't settle things nicely and with respect, why must we respect you? Just because of our ages? Everybody is the same unless you have a different social status or.... Anyway... Ya. Respect must be reasonable.
Well, this is my view. Hope that I didn't offend anybody. Share your view with me:) I'm glad to listen to your thoughts.
Saturday, 2 November 2013
I'm not Mozart...
Haiz... Really can't stand my father... Keep saying that I'm just making noise playing the piano. -.- HALLO? I'm practising! You can't probably expect a person to play like Mozart for the first time right? (Mozart can compose and play at very young age)
*For your info, I'm playing 'Ballade Pour Adelline' by Richard Clayderman.
I'm playing this part where right hand need to go very fast coz it's Demisemiquaver and left hand needs to keep playing the same note everytime after the first note of right hand... If you know the music or score, you probably know what I'm saying... Yeah...
So I need to go very fast and my fingers will get "twisted" so I kept practising that part... And my father say that I'm creating noise... WTF?!?! I know I'm "creating noise" but it's part of practising. Nobody's perfect.
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