Thursday, 7 November 2013

Seniors VS Juniors

Just can't understand some adults. Why can't they just accept the fact that they are wrong and listen to their junior's views instead of scolding the juniors for talking back? I know some of you adults just cannot take it when a junior prove you wrong. But hello, nobody's perfect. You need to listen to other people's views, share your thoughts with them or prove the juniors that they are wrong by talking nicely. Why can't you just do that instead of scolding us like we are always wrong? I really appreciate some adults who talk to their juniors nicely, share their thoughts together and improve their life, ,accept their own mistake and learn. It's really nice. :) but some adults just cannot accept the fact that they are wrong and just use the 2 words 'Talk Back'. The word talk back means to to share political views. Really hate them misusing the word. It's not just because you are seniors, you ought to get respect or what. Did you really listen or hear our views? Listen and hear are two different words. Do you actually try to understand us? Now this becomes a family problem. News saying that their child is spending more time with their friends and on their phone, parents are not close with their child or  government organising more family bonding days or activities blah blah... But hey. Family bonding is not just about fun. It's also about the understanding each other. Did you guys ever try to understand? Sometimes kids spend more time with their friends. Did you actually understand why? 
We are taught to settle things nicely when we are about kindergarten age... When kids fight with each other, teachers or parents will often tell their child to apologise to "opponent", Shake hands with each other and be friends again. Hey! Come on! Some matters are minor. You don't need to act so "impulsive" or treat it as if it's a major thing. 
Dear seniors... Though you're senior, you still have to settle things logically and because you are seniors, you can't simply say that a person is talking back just because you don't accept their views. You need to listen and learn. I know seniors are "stronger" than juniors but if you can't settle things nicely and with respect, why must we respect you? Just because of our ages? Everybody is the same unless you have a different social status or.... Anyway... Ya. Respect must be reasonable. 
Well, this is my view. Hope that I didn't offend anybody. Share your view with me:) I'm glad to listen to your thoughts.

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